How Second Chances Can Lead To Film Success?

“Sometimes you need a second chance, because you weren’t quite ready for the first” – Unknown

Small budget = small crew and that’s exactly what I had. A director of photography (DP) (Ihana Brown), lead sound, actors, and my younger sister as a production assistant (PA) :-). It’s a few weeks before the second shoot and the constant barrage of thoughts surrounding the key question, “What shots, objects, scenes, and lines need to be heard and seen on camera for the end viewer to understand the story?” were still swirling through my mind. To make things even clearer I was thinking of doing some type of storyboarding.

Fast forward, it’s the day before the shoot, I spend the entire day buying groceries, creating / cleaning props which did involve searching through recycling bins to find trash, bottles, cans, boxes etc.). I even prepped the locations, sent out schedules, call sheets, and scripts.

That night, due to exhaustion, I ended up sleeping through all of my alarms and somehow managed to wake up to the chimes of multiple text messages from the lead sound letting me know that he’d arrived and is waiting downstairs. (Shoot!)

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What is the benefit(s) of a second chance?

Self-improvement and personal growth. Receiving a second chance allows you to assess all the mistakes, faults, attitudes, and misjudgments you made and accept 100% responsibility for them. Then, decide to go about the situation again with more diligence. Second chances also improve your self-image and makes you accept that trying something new is going to take time to perfect.

Bouncing back better each time will improve your intangibles to the outside world such as being a person of initiative, integrity, quality, and perseverance.

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 I quickly shrug my sister awake, wash-up, and put breakfast on the table. I rush downstairs to let the lead sound into the building and coincidentally the first of the four actors was also waiting with him. Not long after that the DP shows up with the second actor. We go to film the first scene in an apartment complex parking lot across the street. After we finish, we head back to the Airbnb where I task my sister with putting trash and bottles (emptied & washed) everywhere to make the place look messy.

Next, came instructing the male actor on how to perform a mini physical stunt. I ask him to make it look as realistic as possible. Grab the shirt. Do a little tussle. Throw the empty bottle and aim to make contact. It was all or nothing at this point, but I also had to ensure everyone’s safety.

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Is giving a second chance a good idea?

It depends on the person / situation. If the person / situation did something hurtful to you, really ask if you had something to do with it (i.e., did I treat that person/situation well from the start? Did I take advantage of my privileges? etc.) and be real about it.

Now, if the answers are positive on your part, really be skeptical about giving that person / situation a second chance. Ask yourself if the person / situation is really worth your time and energy? (Really take the time to think it through. Don’t rush!) Remember, if the person / situation can do it you once they can surely do it again if given the right circumstances.

I always refer to this quote from Jay-Z, “Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me“.

However, if the answers are negative on your end and you want to make things right with the person / situation, work your tail off to prove yourself to them and to yourself.

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A few more hours pass by, and we get through the final scenes with the remaining two actors. Finally, it’s a wrap. Did I feel accomplished? Yes. But the feeling was short-lived because I’ve felt this feeling before. The real feeling of accomplishment will only come in post-production when all the footage has been sorted through and put together for the final product.

A month or so passes by and the editor sends me the first rough cut. My nerves started kicking in badly. I click the link, watch the footage, and I was incredibly relieved! The tightness in my chest began to unwind and I could fully do a full inhale and exhale. Other than a few minor changes I understood everything from beginning to end.

But then I realized that my opinion matters only to a certain extent. It’s all about the end consumer and their understanding. I needed to find a few people that would give me their honest opinion. I reached out to WIFV Executive Director, Melissa Houghton, who gave me her thoughts. Then, I reached out to director and producer, Alyscia Cunningham.

Alyscia takes a few days to send me her feedback and I was happy with how positive it was. She did express that she had to watch the rough-cut multiple times due to the volume, but overall, she could understand the story from beginning to end. But overall, the rough cut just needed to be rearranged. (Okay. I can deal with that).

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What is the power of second chances?

It trains you to become a leader. Leaders have to make tough decisions and stand on them even if the outside world disagrees. It enables you to see the signs of a sincere person versus an individual who’s not serious about you and is instead trying to use you. It changes your energy. It repels those who aren’t for you and attracts those that want to help you get you to the next level.

Watch this video to stay motivated:

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I set up a zoom meeting with Alyscia and Ihana (editor) to narrow everything down. But, a few days before the meeting was set to take place something unexpected happens.

I end up winning a film grant. (Oh my gosh!

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